6 June 2025
Ever felt like no matter what you do, nothing changes? Like you're stuck in a never-ending cycle of bad luck, failure, or just plain exhaustion? Welcome to the world of learned helplessness—a psychological phenomenon that explains why some people simply stop trying.
This concept, first introduced by Martin Seligman, has played a crucial role in understanding depression, human behavior, and motivation. But what exactly is learned helplessness, and how does it shape our mental health? Let’s break it down in the simplest (and quirkiest) way possible.
Now, take another rat and give it shocks too—but this time, nothing stops them. No matter what it does, the pain continues. Eventually, this rat gives up. Even when later given a way to escape, it doesn't try. It has learned that nothing it does matters.
That, in a nutshell, is learned helplessness—when repeated negative experiences teach an individual that they have no control over their situation, leading to passivity, hopelessness, and even depression.
After this, all the dogs were placed in a new environment where they could easily escape the shocks by jumping over a barrier.
Guess what happened?
The dogs from Groups One and Two quickly escaped. But the dogs from Group Three—who had learned they had no control—just lay there and took the shocks, even though freedom was literally a small jump away.
This was groundbreaking. If dogs could learn helplessness, could humans, too?
Seligman believed the answer was a resounding YES.
This is how learned helplessness shows up in daily life:
- Depression – Feeling powerless to improve your situation.
- Education – Kids who struggle with math may eventually stop trying.
- Workplace Burnout – Employees who feel their efforts don’t matter stop pushing for success.
- Relationships – Staying in unhealthy relationships because past attempts to leave failed.
The mental toll? Frustration, anxiety, low self-esteem, and—most significantly—depression.
His studies showed that many depressed individuals see life as hopeless because they believe they have no control over their happiness. If you've ever heard someone say, “Nothing I do matters,” that’s learned helplessness in action.
Seligman and his colleagues found that:
- Depressed individuals often attribute failures to internal (“I’m just not good enough”), stable (“I’ll always be this way”), and global (“Everything in my life is a disaster”) causes.
- This pessimistic thinking reinforces helplessness, creating a negative feedback loop that keeps them stuck.
In other words, depression and learned helplessness go hand in hand.
Seligman later developed Positive Psychology, which focuses on resilience, optimism, and personal control as tools to combat helplessness.
Here are some ways to reclaim control over your life:
- It explains why people stay in bad situations (abusive relationships, dead-end jobs).
- It sheds light on mental health struggles like depression and anxiety.
- It offers tools to regain control over our lives.
His work also paved the way for fields like positive psychology, resilience training, and even leadership development.
But here’s the key takeaway: You are not stuck. Helplessness is learned, but it can also be unlearned. With the right mindset, support, and persistence, you can break free from the cycle and take back control.
So, the next time you feel powerless? Remember—you’re not! You’ve just been trained to think you are. And training can be rewritten.
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Psychological TheoriesAuthor:
Paulina Sanders
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Jemima Bailey
Seligman’s exploration of learned helplessness highlights the profound links between mindset and mental health, offering critical insights into depression's underlying mechanisms and treatment strategies.
June 6, 2025 at 4:39 AM